Finding the Right Riding Instructor: 7 Questions to Ask
- Heather Looney
- Jun 23
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 2
Finding the right riding instructor (for you and/or your horse) can feel overwhelming, especially with so many philosophies, disciplines, and teaching styles out there. From varying rider goals to different instructor qualifications and approaches to horsemanship, it’s easy to feel lost in the options. That’s why we’ve simplified the process: to help you clarify what matters most to you and choose a program that truly aligns with your values, goals, and vision as a rider.
1. What are the requirements for students and horses in your program?
When finding a new trainer or barn program - this is essential! It is important to make sure that you fully understand the trainer and barn’s expectations of you and your horse. Do they require a weekly lesson? Training rides for your horse if you are bringing one? Are you required to show? How often? What happens if you get sick or need to cancel a lesson? Making sure that your expectations are in alignment is imperative to everyone’s success!

2. How do you match riders with horses, and how do you ensure the well-being of the horses in your program?
This question may be often overlooked, but often reveals a barn’s values around animal welfare and how they respect both the riders and the horses as a whole. Do they have school masters that will keep you safe as you learn or will you feel overfaced by the horses that you are assigned? Do they overuse or over-work their horses to the point where they’re always grumpy or lame? What care do the horses receive before and after they are ridden? When finding a program- you want to look for somewhere you can grow as a rider, and you need to stay safe in the process!
3. What kind of goals do you help your students work toward, and how do you adapt your lessons to different riders' aspirations (ie. recreational vs competitive)?
Within the world of equestrians, there are SO many different types of riding. Are you looking for a specific discipline (ie. Hunter/Jumper vs Dressage)? Are you looking to compete? Or are you just here to have fun and develop a relationship with your horse without any external stressors?
Whatever it is that you’re looking for- there is a place that you can find it, you just have to be sure to clearly communicate your goals and see how your instructor can help get you there.
The cool thing is, if they can’t help you, they probably know someone who can, and will point you in a direction that may better suit your needs.
4. How do you handle fear, mistakes, or plateaus in learning?
If you are an equestrian, the odds are high that you’ve never directly asked this question to your instructor. Oftentimes, you may even get settled in at a barn and then quickly discover that your instructor’s approach to these scenarios is not going to work for you. Inevitably, we all make mistakes, we all experience fear, and we all have those stagnant months where it feels like nothing is changing. Some individuals do better with a rigid, hard-core mindset, while others may find it more damaging to be pushed when they are afraid. While every individual’s preference is different, it is important to make sure you find an instructor who aligns with your needs.
5. What qualifications and experience do you have, and how do you continue learning and growing as an instructor?
Horseback riding is one of the only industries where there is no official certification required to become an instructor, coach, or professional.
While more certifications have popped up over the recent years, it is important to know what qualifies your instructor to be an instructor!
Did they study under any notable professionals? Were they a working student? How long have they been in the business? If you want to show - what is their show record like? Most importantly, do they have any testimonials? Are there former or present students that recommend them, and can you see the results? While a bachelor's degree in equine studies doesn’t always produce a top tier trainer, it’s important to conduct your own assessment into an individual's qualifications and experience.
6. What kind of progress can I expect, and how will we track it over time?
Going back to your goals, how will they be tracked, and what can you expect out of your program? If you want to compete, when and how often will you be allowed to do so? If you are looking to ride off property, is that an opportunity that will be provided? Alternatively, if you are seeking training for your horse, what is a realistic timeline for the training you are seeking? Are you free to meet with your instructor to discuss your progress and goals? All of these are key to managing appropriate expectations and keeping you and your instructor aligned!
7. Can I observe a lesson, training session, or speak with a current student before committing?
If the answer to this question is ever “No” - RUN! Observing a lesson or training session is the fastest way to know if this instructor’s style is for you. Alternatively, speaking with a current student is the easiest way to assess barn culture, and whether or not you and/or your horse will happily fit into the program!
Take Your Time to Find the Right Fit
Taking the time to ask the right questions can make all the difference in finding an instructor who not only supports your growth as a human and equestrian, but also shares your values.
When searching for the right fit, always trust your instincts, stay true to your values, and remember that the right program is out there - you just have to find it!
Would you like to find out if our instructors at Concordia Stables are the right fit for you?
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